I am reminded of and old story
A beggar sits outside the gate of an old city, when a traveler arrives. He asks the beggar about the people in the city, and what they are like.
The beggar asks the travel what the people in the previous city he was in where like. The man says they where unfriendly and cliquey and untalented and almost useless to a man, all they ever did was complain, and sulk and moan.
The beggar looks up and says in this city the people are just the same.
Not long after a second traveler arrives, and asks the beggar the same question. Again he asks the man what the people in the previous city where like. To witch the man says, They where the friendliest and most pleasant people he had ever met, fun talented, shared and where a pleasure to be with.
The beggar looked up and said the people in this city are just the same.